why do we feel helpless some times..!!

hi bloggers, and the non..
it isn't that that m an emotional person, and will be writing about life and similar heavy things, it's just the transition sometimes goes through our path and forces change willingly or un..

when we have questions and we don't get answers why does it irritates ??
when we want something or some one and can't get why does it becomes painful ??
when we want to stick to something  and cant why ??

i know it is... the "WANT" what makes us helpless some times ...
ohhk.. let me tell u one thing.. being good is not always enough, as i might sound depressive but i have failed many times in being upto the expectations of people around me.. even after being good at many other things.

and this want was a big cause which created misshapps.. ha ha
things around you always influence you, on everything you do and everything you want to and certainly when we act accordingly to the influence of the surrounding and if any thing goes not the way we want, we call it failure and make us helpless and restless....

but on the other hand if you don't let the surrounding influence you the surrounding keeps poking and hitting you with the best of the spells it can cast un till the wicket is finally gone..

i will suggest that the effect is mandatory so do not try to avoid it, jut sit back relax and enjoy the pain of being helpless cos the help is about to arrive any time and the same surrounding will introduce it to you.. :)