Tuesday, 12 April 2016

switch.

Almost a moth to go for my birthday, turning a year older.

I am an advisory consultant now, in one of the big four auditing firms all around the globe, i am supposed to be an expert, at understanding business needs, and software solutions to make it as robust and alive as possible, well at least make it pretend that it is alive.

Our lives are equally complicated and it has its own phases, like a software development life cycle.

Friday, 13 November 2015

Pehchan - turn over a new leaf



This could have been anyone's story, a kid who lost his parents and found a new life, pun intended, a teenager who does not know what is eating him inside-out, the young ones who have no idea how heart breaking life can be, the one in their twenties struggling poverty, hunger, livelihood and drugs and the elderly with the cold eyes staring at the dead end, not even knowing if they missed in their pursuit to live.
 
A few of them made a difference, around an year ago a rather small group passing by the over-bridge at ghansoli, was touched with the fight these people were putting against every believe of civil society and in favor of the  Darwin's biological ones, writing, "This survival of the fittest, which I have here sought to express in real social senses and the place is now, known for the school named Pehchaan.

At pehchan they are trying to cure it at the seedling, at the stem and at the leaves, all together making a non ruptured or ready to collapse, neighborhood, under the bridge.
Students ranging the age of 2 to 25 trying to read, write, do everyday mathematics, the home makers of the under bridge trying to make it over the bridge, and hey.....
they do even have a computer now !!

Teachers at Pehchan are the strong contributing hands of a few home makers, engineers, doctors, media persons, students and many more from all sectors of the same civic society.

Pehchaan tries to impart knowledge and behavior, a respect towards unity and elders.
You just need to experience the voice texture and the full throttle smiles of those kids singing the national anthem, chanting A for Apple and B for Ball.. 
ladies amassed to watch Saba stitch a button on a shirt, the cartoons talking in the Friday video class.
or the fumes of special day treats and the melody of
 "If you are Happy and you know it.... ".

the evenings don't go as happy as those lines everyday, teachers caught up in their own lives, usually decreases the moral of the school.

"Some days the light, others the rain
some days the drain inside-out, 
other the prolific left alone pain.."

Pehchan on the shoulders of few who never leave it alone is still fighting a new battle every day.
Come be a part of the war.
for further details logOn to the Fb page
  
soon ill be up with all my experiances at pehchan in the form of a book called Overbridged.

stay tuned
jay.

Monday, 2 February 2015

E's Vs D's

hellos, 
dea reader, all my wishes for a very beautiful new yea..

Lnt ebg, my client, one of the giant's in the electrical and business gear, is managed throughout the country on applications made by me, SAP. One routine stops, and they cant print gate passes any more, which leads to 100s of trucks in a line waiting at the gate and then the highway traffic stuck.
Now this guy, which is me, on the computer all day, to keep the traffic on the highway working, cant smile, normal gingivitis... painful and irritating.  It just wont go.
Then I enter this clinic called 32 smiles, and a beautiful dentist., says allot and I cant stop looking at her,  just do whatever you said..
And their you go, two sittings, scary but not so painful.. and she really gave me 32 smiles..
I though had a crush for the dentist, but m better away :P
The point is, she made me and my pocket really light !

My elder sister is a dentist,  a new frnd is gonna become one, an old school frnd is gonna be a doctor, as a matter of fact two are.
My little sister is a software engineer, my brother is preparing to become one, in fact, most of my best friends are engineers. 

Doctor, as a title, originates from the Latin word of the same spelling and meaning. The word is originally an agentive noun of the Latin verb docēre 'to teach'. It has been used as an horned academic title for over a millennium in Europe, where it dates back to the rise of the first universities on the other side engineers..

Hah, well i know how have i finished my engineering, so even if their is a history to support how amazing we can be... l will pass :P 

but on a serious note, both of them are from the most educated group of people, and have their own respect in Indian or any other social republic.

By a personal notion, i respect doctors more, for all the possible reasons you might be already knowing and because if you are in pain, out of ten times, in seven you know who can .. take it away !

regards,, j..

Thursday, 9 October 2014

I don’t mind cockroach, till it don’t fly!!

Hey all bloggers, long time no see,
Well, here I am.. What’s up?

I am still trying to work with my company in Mumbai, though it’s a little difficult to try with my company rather than for my company. Has all changed? 
Nop, not much same client same work. Few friends are gonna get married soon, few gonna get an all new level of cute little responsibility, some still fighting the sun, some fighting to make their name, some leaving the company, but yes not much has changed. At the age of 20es, I guess one of the biggest demons haunting you all the time is marriage.
I see my friends preparing for their marriage. You could not indulge into everything girls talk about, but yes the boys at home are not easy in any way.
“Working or No-Working, beauty doesn’t matter she should be good in nature, bhai, khana achcha banana cheye!! (Well that one seems a unisex requirement these days), mera kya hoga m already 26.

Gosh... please, the place where I belong, ten year gap between spouses is normal. OMG let’s call it a generation gap. Dowry still breaths and breeds, few families are fighting against it, others for it and that is how they maintain the equilibrium.
“We don’t believe in burning the bride – magar thoda help ho jata toh achcha tha (a bit of help would be good)”
“We don’t give dowry, just a piece of land. apni khusi se !!” and the list goes on ..

Consider a sidewalk. Some litter accumulates. Soon, more litter accumulates. Eventually, people even start leaving bags of trash from take-out restaurants.
The term "Zero Tolerance" appeared for the first time in a report in 1994. The idea behind this expression can be traced back to the Safe and Clean Neighborhoods Act, approved in New Jersey in 1973, of which inherits the same underlying assumptions. The ideas behind the 1973 New Jersey policy were later popularized in 1982, when a popular magazine published the broken windows theory of crime.
The broken windows theory of crime says, Consider a building with a few broken windows. If the windows are not repaired, the tendency is for vandals to break a few more windows. Eventually, they may even break into the building, and if it's unoccupied, perhaps become squatters or light fires inside.

India is changing, even after handling huge stress at the LOC from two near ends. A new prime minister and billions of hope lamps seems promising yet difficult. 
Recent elections where one of a kind, new parties old alliances, and broken strings, people where fighting their guts out. One got the royal chair of the biggest democracy in the world the other was on quit a defamed trail.

People with not so decent track has always been there in our society with a political camouflage, perhaps that is why we now don’t believe in purity any more, rather the least impure seems more promising.
I have seen, observed people saying, this government will not do scams, not at least as big as the last one.

Like I said, we do not only mind cockroaches...
We do not mind alot more.. till it comes our way.

Regards
Hopeless, j..

Saturday, 21 December 2013

Strange Changes...


Life is like the I pod, no matter how u plan ur playlist u might not be able to avoid the track cummin up next.

A boy meets a girl, and the girl in turn meets a boy, attraction, like, affection, care words follow but the sad part is bored, fore granted, sorry, shout .... as i said, words follow...
All of us know the only thing that brings  & keeps two persons together is love and affection, they may turn it up in to a relationship, which is supposed to be the fruit.
Wooho.. plz dont go, this is not another thesis on relationships... i knw this is not going in with the images...  but it will intern .. :P

The thread that ties us, after all we try and impress and do really put allot of emotional investment for this thread to exist and by the logic it should be the most important thing to protect and cared for, but suddenly for simplest of the reasons or may be mistakes by one counterpart the other starts putting the same thread as the bait, a thing to scare the other from being broken apart, and then, i cant bare you, enough, you are impossible, how can you, i didn't expect this, i did expect that and its over.... and now even words refuse to follow..
They say, this love will change you, well does any thing stays the same ?

nop, just same strange changes, and even if it does isn't that what love supposed to do ?

 We all grow old, aging is quit a process. At nine dream of twelve and then the teenage, being young, thirties  and forty five and then we want to go back.. well, i thought growing up was the whole point.
Same eve of scintillation 2013 came with more of a shock.......



One of very good friends and a mentor is getting divorced and to be frank i am sad, cause i could relate to him, and now i can relate more..
and that is why these picks don't go with my words..
i came to know in the later part of the eve.

Well any ways we had our "Annual day" defiantly-maybe ( :P ) at lnt infotech and was cool.. fun and lots of dancing, particularly as turn up the music cause the sun just came up,and if they try to turn us down..

will leave you with few clicks ...
Though Amal had this strain , he is our personal rajni anna.. nothing less than " the world is about to end" could stop him from dancing..
we change, some for good some out of no explainable reasons. Now excepting and rejecting depend on you or may be the right now wala state of you..

"coz the set of values you variables contain at that particular instant of time defines you, at the moment level..
people call it a moment, i call it life...
learning life..."

the host was RJ Malishka, red FM wali.. ;)
awsome bajatey raho of all the seniors with Sunny Leon, and widely appreciated duo meant jokes.
and now the last one, this is Ashish & Gautam,
we enjoyed allot, danced, screamed- i mean northern, Punjabi, the vulgar ones and the most decent steps... the call was " Disko me jab ye gana bajega, step kark dikhana parega ;)" We danced our way out of the place with everyone, changes might be strange but sometimes they r for good.. now plz dont ask who's and why ..
and about the prior, ill say if you ever care for something please do not put it on bait, do not let the love go.. cause it leaves behind sorrow, grief and vacant space..


and like i said, just words follow..
good monin and good night
regards, hopeless, j..