Dejavo

After spending six unexpected, anticipated months of the life in banglore, I have been living the most anticipated night life, whic other banglorians dont get the privledge to live.. because of my many nights at call center now staying awak at night is a burden fo me now.

We after all leaving tjos place with the , ixed feeling of happyness, and gratitude ..

Few of the Craziest proposals ever ..

We all look forward to finding that one single person who completes us, and makes us feel alive and special. When we do find that significant other or better half, we make grand gestures of love to them and we put in motion an attempt to seal the deal with a marriage proposal. Well, i was hopeless, but these people..

These are some of the most romantic proposals that i've found to help you when it's time or just to give you a moment to go 'awww'...

Isaac's Live Lip-Dub Proposal

When Isaac decided he wanted to marry Amy, he did it in the most theatrical way possible and to the tune of Bruno Mars' 'Marry You'. He got all his friends and family together to lip sync and dramatize the song on the road near his parents' house while his girlfriend sat in the back of the car watching and listening to the song on headphones.

Tim's Meme Proposal:

Timothy Tiah Ewe Tiam who shared a love of the internets with his girlfriend Audrey Ooi Feng Ling proposed to her with a slideshow of memes. He surprised her at a coffee shop while she was with her friends and began his print slideshow of internet memes leading upto a proposal. Now that's what we call, 'like a boss'

Jim's Illustration Proposal

Jim's proposal to Julie completely tugs at your heart strings. He created a website with beautifully drawn illustrations of their lives together which concluded with him reaching the pinnacle of his happiness meter at their wedding. There is also a video of her reaction to reading the website. For the whole, proposal go to 

http://juliewillyoumarry.me/

Matt's Movie Theater Proposal...

Our second theatrical performance was literally aired at a theater. Matt lured his girlfriend, Ginny, to the local theater where she saw a movie trailer of Matt asking her dad permission to marry her and then running to the theater to present the ring. Filmmaker Michael Escobar was hired to do the trailer.

Stay inspired..

please post me if you have done something equally nuts.. 

then i will tell you one more...

with a not so happy ending

--

hopeless, jey

3 longest minutes….

Since my child hood, mum was love and papa was fear, more over synonyms … well time changes things, but how much?

Bihar, in 2001 census, Muzaffarpur had a population of 3,746,714 of which males were 1,951,466 and remaining 1,795,248 were females. 

Average literacy rate stood at 59.10 and 35.81 in Muzaffarpur District. Total literate in Muzaffarpur District were 2,601,665 of which male and female were 1,539,154 and 1,062,511 respectively. In 2001, Muzaffarpur District had 1,440,954 in its district. Out of which 36% ware the kids below 6 years. Imagine the condition in 1988 when finally a phenomenon landed on earth … I, me and myself !!

My parents came up with an idea that I should not be allowed to play with the slum-dog millionaires in the neighbors, and I grew up with 72 TV channels with animals on discovery and cartoons on the network. Lost in my own world and having fights with me, I developed a personality which was not uniquely identifiable.  

I used to be every character I liked, from Dexter to captain planet in 90’s till to Damon Salvatore to Joseph Morgan of today.

Papa was strong, determined, and confident and on the contrary the junior was suppressed, confused and variable having more of a kind of multiple personality disorder.

Five days of high temperature and pain, I was suffering from a viral infection, medicines could control the temperature for hours only and once their effect was off, I used to be hot again.

In noon I took the medicine, for the heat as it was bumping up, and it was prescribed to be taken once only, one hour later, mummy found that the fever was still bumping and was around 104 and counting, she unknowingly gave me one more of those heat tablets, and just ten minutes later papa came home and guess what, he gave me one more …

Me unconscious and dosed by three times the paracetamol I could bare started losing my temperature after burning at 105 from inside out, I could open my eyes and saw my family surrounding me, closed my eyes and in might me a second for me tried opening them again, the evening had turned in to night…

Family and family friends and the nabours all around me!!

Hell, what happened?

I figured out that since evening, my temperature started dropping and never stopped, I was 20 degrees below normal, my one had was in my mums and other in the doctors hand, he could not locate the pulse..

And the nabours already started with the chances of the death of a boy they almost never saw playing cricket or running for a kite which just detached from its thread or throwing a stone at the street dogs searching for a bit of shadow, well I was cold now, every second was noisy as I could hear the clock and barely see any faces, papa was sitting at near my head, I left mums and grabbed paa’s, and said I cannot hold it tight papa, I am shaky, uncle in the corner was trying to get the ambulance, mum was crying and my little sister was trying to keep me dry and warm.. But this time I was freezing from inside...

Time seemed stopped and I felt I am weightless, just one strong feel of having my father with me holding my hands as strong as the fear I had for him... in the mean while Mr. doctor figured out that I was overdosed and it reacted, so an antidote could work and I was stabbed an injection to stop the reaction as soon as possible, holding my fathers hands watching mum, my sister and a not so loved doctor.. The temperature finally stopped with the ambulance at my door steps...

The viral fever never came back but, I was up and running in five more days. Those three minutes went off but they left me with feelings I will never forget...

After more than ten years of those frozen three minutes, relations and the value of life changed, Mr. senior Singh is more like a friend than a father now, but the junior singh is still a hopeless.

If you want to feel an experience of love and proud to be your father's son, please try, "I Am MY Father's Son" by Dan Hill. I hope you will like it.

Thanks for reading

Regards, jey

When I'm gone..

Have you ever loved someone so much, you'd give an arm for?
Not the expression, no, literally give an arm for?
When they know they're your heart
And you know you were their armour
And you will destroy anyone who would try to harm 'her
But what happens when karma, turns right around and bites you?
And everything you stand for, turns on you to spite you?
What happens when you become the main source of her pain?

 

When I'm gone, just carry on, don't mourn
Rejoice every time you hear the sound of my voice
Just know that I'm looking for your smile
And I didn't feel a thing, So baby don't feel my pain
Just smile back...

Welcome to IMS, you are with jey...

 

Have you ever asked yourself this question “Why does this guy earn this much in an IMS, while I work my ass off in the office and still don’t get half as much as he does?” Well, think again!

Many often think that being a IMS agent is a breeze, walk in, talk for a couple of hours, have a couple of cigarettes, go drink with friends after shift and go home, and get a huge paycheck on payday. This is the common thinking amongst those earn work for a living, compared to those who earn to maintain their lifestyle.

Little do people know that there are a lot of sacrifices needed to gain so much. Sleep, family time, and sometimes relationships. The most common is sleep, since most IMSs operate during the night to match the time in the country of which their clients do business. It is scientifically proven that sleep is best taken during the night since this is the normal behavior of the human body.

The second is not being able to spend as much time for the family for those who have children or are taking care of other family members. And third is sacrificing one’s relationship to focus on earning more and being able to have a fruitful career in the industry.

These may look like simple sacrifices but if you look at it closer and try putting yourself in their shoes, you would realize what these people are losing to gain or maintain the current lifestyle in which most IMS agents live. It is now very common to meet someone at an exclusive bar or club and ask where they work or what they do and they would generally say in a IMS. The industry not only provides opportunities for people to sustain a living for their families, but also open up new horizons for some.

I have asked around and came across several individuals who work in the industry and asked them what difference did they had from when they worked in a conventional office job and the benefits they have received from working in a IMS. One technical support agent said “I have worked in an IT company before, where I worked the same number of hours, I definitely worked my ass off and even got to the point that I almost drove myself crazy from the load that I had, I didn’t have time to go out even during Saturday nights, since I would devote myself to sleep and rest the whole weekend.

Now, I work the number of hours, but I definite don’t have as much burden on my shoulders and I call it as Infra structure management services. The only downside is that when I get home I feel alone on earth, when I wake up to go to work my world is already asleep. The only time I get to spend time with them is during the week off which again is never on the same days every time.”

Talking with few of the finest, funniest, different cultures, age groups, very intelligent and sometimes very angry voices from United States, united Kingdome, Russia, China, France, Australia and all around the world..

Every time a new trouble, a virus,

or corrupted windows account,

a router not working or a network not found!!

thank you for visiting, learning life

have a gud day, and you were with jey..   

Amen omen...

What started as a whisper, slowly turned into a scream
Searching for an answer, where the question is unseen
I don't know where you came from, and I don't know where you've gone
Old friends become old strangers between darkness and the dawn

Amen omen, will I see your face again?
Amen omen, can I find the place within to live my life without you?

I still hear you saying, "All of life is chance"
And is sweetest, is sweetest when at a glance
But I live, I live a hundred, hundred life times in a day
But I die a little in every breath that I take

Amen omen, will I see your face again?
Amen omen, can I find the place within to live my life without you?

I listen to a whisper slowly drift away
Silence is a loudest parting word you never say
I put, I put your world into my reins
And now a voiceless sympathy is all that remains

Amen omen, will I see your face again?
Amen omen, can I find the place within to live my life without you?

Forever isn't long enough

There are moments in my life that I'll always remember, not because they were important, but because you were there in them. Because of you... I laugh a little harder, cry a little less, and smile a little more. Just because someone doesn't love you the way you want them to, doesn't mean they don't love you with all they have.

When you thought I was not trusting, you were so wrong, baby, I was loving you.

 

Its weird how sometimes things just have to happen to see how you actually feel about someone.
We only think that you are immune to feelings. And the most unlikely person could reduce you to tears, laughter, or spontaneous declarations of love.

Today someone asked me, "Do you think it's possible to love a person forever?"
I didn't know what to say, but then I thought of you, I knew it was true.
and my hopeless answer,

"Forever isn't long enough.".