you are insensitive, u do not care, u hurt me on purpose every time and u say u love me....

what is it, u say u want me to go away..
u want me to hate u..
i hate my self, that i do the opposite ... and that too even more than my life !!


hopeless, jey :(

I am sick an tired of becoming overbearing and possessive and turning my happy, loving relationship into a relationship based on fear, jealousy and control. Possessiveness stems from feelings of insecurity in a relationship, where the possessive person doubts the love and dedication of another person and as a result, becomes jealous and controlling.
m afraid m neither in any of those conditions... that in deed makes the situation worst...


This type of dynamic typically occurs in parent/child relationships and romantic relationships, but can also occur in close friendships too. Unfortunately, the more possessive someone is in a relationship, the more their partner will struggle to be free, hence making the possessive person feel even more insecure and desperate to gain control.


Overbearing and possessive people are normally strong-willed people and expect others to conform to their values and wishes. They are typically self-pitying, easily offended and find it hard to give without expecting anything in return. Possessive people are often very talkative, opinionated and argumentative..... understanding all this after an attack is off course of no use :(..



Experience of infidelity, Experience of parental abandonment
Insecurity and lack of self-esteem, Loneliness..
Asking myself why i am so possessive and overbearing. Putig some thought into it. Is it really due to the bad behaviour of the other person or is it more to do with you as a person or something that happened to you in the past ??


not bad but not even gud ... and only think happened with me in past is nothing like this happend in past


i tried Increase my self-esteem and self-confidence to help this hopeless improve his relationships with others.


i ended up frustrating and even more hope less.. :'(


Give my self a reality check - I took a good look at those things that trigger my possessiveness and asked myself how realistic the threat is. Is your behaviour actually making the situation worse?


i think their is no threat, i trust her... It is completely, becoz she is avoiding me at the same time very gud with some one else and all these fucking restrictions..


I Talk to myself up - when i start feeling the twinges of jealousy and possessiveness, i remind myself that my partner loves me, is committed to you and respects you. Tell myself you're a loveable person and that nothing's going on that you’re not aware of.


yes m aware of everything.. she is very truth full.... committed ??? nop she says she is single....


I Seek reassurance, one of the best ways to beat possessiveness !! I asked fo hlp, asked my partner for reassurance. Made sure that i don't nag, bully or control, instead .... just shared my insecurities and asked to help you overcome the problem...


she said she wont help me... neither the stupid reassurance  ..!!
  
THE PROBLEM IS I have made my primary relationship the focus of my whole life, i must find other avenues of fulfillment in other areas of my life. 




you r the best princess paleeezz
Don’t give up your interests, friends and ambitions outside the relationship just to appease me. This will just feed my possessive and controlling tendencies and will result in you being miserable.... nooop... i don't want that... never !!




m really getting mad..
hopeless, jey 

hey all bloggers, way long back in time i bellived, now m experiencing..

If you are going to love me, love me deeply. If you break my heart, then break it all. If you are going to care, care for me completely. If you decide not to hold me, then just let me fall. If you are going to stay, then stay forever. And if you want to leave, then do it today. If you are going to change, change for the better. And if you are going to talk, then please mean what you say.

And I can’t help but wonder how normal it is to feel this way. I mean, here I am, in the throes of the most amazing girl I have ever known-someone who has so quickly become my world-and I can’t help but question it all. I have never been more sure of my feelings for anyone and never have I been so insecure about someone’s feelings for me. I don’t know what to do but I’m never giving up on you.

its jey, hopeless again :(

the L story.....the L story.....the L story.....the L story.....the L story.....the L story.....the L story.....the L story.....the L story.....the L story.....the L story.....the L story.....the L story.....the L story.....the L story.....the L story.....the L story.....the L story.....the L story.....the L story.....the L story.....

Let me tell you a L story

A legendary tale full of elan and glory.

She's a girl in a pretty pink gown,

He's her prince charming from tinsel town.

What happens 'Jab They Met'?

On each other their eyes are set.

Their fluttering heart beats out of control,

A home run, a kick,a score,a goal!!

In slow motion the wind blows her hair,

Cupid strikes love is in the air.

From the corner of her eye she steals a glance,

Imagines them together doing ball dance.

Oops!!Dancing on street;stumbles,she trips,

She gasps!Her hand he firmly grips.

I won't let you fall my lady,

Falling for her slow and steady.

And begins the saga of incomprehensible talks,

Round and round the aimless walks.

Inseparable they are like the moth from flame,

Saxophones and guitar play in background they claim.

Each others sentences they unknowing complete ,

A look at each other & their heart skips a beat. Beneath the starry skies he holds her hand, Promises enclosed in a golden band. And down he goes on bended wobbly knees, A ring in hand,"Will You Marry Me Please"?

She says "YES" & he leans in for a kiss, A slap on the back,something is amiss !!

Working from home,drooling on the table, It's her husband not the prince from the fable. A friendly slap and shes jolted into reality, The side effect of work and it's cruelty. He's concerned, "Any Thing Wrong My Dear"!?

"Nothing My Prince Charming,Come Sit Near". And so they open their laptops and work together ,

Aiyyo !! So romantic,perfect! nothing could be better !!!!! :P

a boy-tha rebounce- turning man ;)

Bhusawal ,Electric Energy & the charm of frenzy,monsoon sweep streets neon light & impossible dream z, hearts carelessly crushed under steletose the real escalator moving at brakeneck speed.
bhusawal, buzzing by day, pulsating by night ware no young can drive the quintessential free independent life,the City i adopted & the city that adopted me where i discovered who i was & began to dream that were i want my Life to be.

What does a girl means when she says she Loves you & she always will,

if she means what she says why would she bread up with you in the first place,

is this just a way of making you feel better about bring dumbed or their is a faint possibility that she may come back just forget  she says,

just forget as she forgot me & the Beautifull Moments we had by i cant discard my feelings, I want you back, and desperately .

Everything is a burning richs my Love Life, Carrier, Job everything.

Everyone grows up with a Fairy take, for me 23 & i guess its time to stop believing on fairy tales.
Why do we always want the Girl who don’t wants us and don’t want the girl who wants us.
May be i think i would rewind the clock & rewrite the Story.
I guess i believe in meracles,but i can hardly say whats wrong & what Correct,true, valid & Persuasive.

Real Life is Confusing, Nothing is like black or white. X-Girlfriend are irresistible, m leaving the college don’t have a job & a depressed mood on the Rebound is turning into many more.
Are all Girls essentially papa's princess now, well do we know the Women in our life?

Once you fail in the creation, you go through many questions, mirror lies, i m smart & handsome m i ,only what i do,& what is Love.
Myth:-23 year old boy Find 19 year old Girl Attractive.
Truth:-23 year old boys find 28 year old women more attractive.

broken hearts can be mended, all it takes few night of drunk and drive ,few nights of Pillows but no tears, no matter how hard you try u cant, coz men are bad at it.

the real solution to a broken heart of course is another Girls, well other girls..

well better still a make over.
A suit & a strong work & you will feel you are a tiger again
When i wake up the next morning & realize it is just another regular day & you put your life on hold until you take out the wolf Again.

23 or not we all are looking for happiness but perhaps at wrong places.

selected or rejected $ still trying... ;)

Zindgi ke safar me guzar jaate hai jo makaam, fir nahi aate...
waiting for results... H.C.L ....fingers crossed ;)

Don't you dare sleep tonight, else you wont be seeing the sun tomorrow...

Hi everyone, 

Wish you all a very happy new year 2012... and all wish that all of us could really complete it..

oh yeah m back, Wo kya hai na...oops sorry, since because have become a real life zips-y since last three and a half years...  just was on a move again.. yes m home these days and soon will be back at college to finish it off, for one last time..

well let it be.. i was amassed to know some thing this evening, in the list of rummers gonna come this year, i hope so, the first one is - IF YOU WILL SLEEP , YOU WILL BE TURNED INTO ICE !!

oh come oon, is that how tha man kind gonna end ??

holly crap... despite literacy rate growth to 75.06% in 2011 from 12% at the end of British rule in 1947 in India we still fall for such superstition ... Jesus, i don't know what's wrong, will you ballleeve that many of the houses have not slept for last three nights in my locality ...

huh.. i could not do much, but just inspired by the one line of an add these days " If it irritates us so much, we should change it"  i went and tried convincing these people that it is not true, it cant be, coz the nights they have been awaken... i was sleeping... remember "Superstition gives birth to fear, and fear to superstition", but as usual, i could not ....m a failure again... but still i can hear my country shouting HELP and it's really loud.

hey...ja just cocentrate   can you hear it  ?????  

try try.. awaaz ayegi 

till then chao ;)